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i hate the fact that everyone else gets what we cant have, dont worry all of our luck will turn around one day

Is there a clue in your name? Life is many other things as well as cruel, it depends how you find it. Like the blind men describing an elephant, one thinks it like a tree, one like a snake, one like a rope.They are all right , but wrong at the same time, it really is bigger than they thought.If you focus on the cruelty of life, does it help you to live it better? Probably not. Most things happen at the expense of something else. I was just reading about Owls, they feed their young on voles,so do I feel sorry for the poor little voles, snatched up and torn apart, or should I feel sorry for the baby owls if they didn't get their dinner. If you are heartbroken, well I'm sorry, some things seem not to be meant to happen, you just have to find a way of dealing with it, an optimistic approach is the one to go for,like; maybe something doesn't happen because something even better is going to happen instead.

Who said we deserve to have everything we want? That's not cruel it's reality. There are ways to get what you want, they just take work and planning. Every young person wants right now what his parents have taken a lifetime to achieve. If it's money you want then make a plan to get the education to get the job that gets the money you need or want. But THINGS won't bring you happiness. Happiness is a choice you make in spite of your circumstances. So, choose happiness.

Luck and cruelty have nothing to do with it.



People are where they are because of information they've received, and actions they have taken based on that information.



If you want something, find a person who has that something, and ask them how they got it.



Life is about learning. If you want something, learn from the people who already have it.



Winners MAKE things happen. Losers LET things happen.

Life isn't cruel, human nature is. If we didn't constantly want for something, we would have no motivation to do anything. Of course, some schools of thought seek to overcome want in general (such as Buddhism).

Life is only cruel if you wallow in your self pity, if you get off your behind and get out there and work, and study, you can attain anything your heart desires.

If you believe what it says in the bible than it's cause when Adam and Eve ate of the tree of knowledge that screwed up everything. Before everything was actually perfect for them but we messed up. Hope that helps a bit.