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Partly depends upon the state you live in. I am in California.



Is her condition HYDROCEPHALUS? My daughter also had/has hydrocephalus; she is now 5 years old.



I understand how hard it is to leave her with someone else... I've been there.



As far as finances... since she qualifies for the SSI check, she/you will probably also qualify for caregiver pay (that would be you) and I can't remember what this is actually called. Check with your Regional Center... are you enrolled in your local regional center? They are a terrific resource for all the benefits available to you.



Your neurologist or neurosurgeon should also have good information for you, or refer you to an in-house social services worker who will know of all the programs you qualify for.



There are programs that will provide you childcare for 4 hours a week (this is for you to get a break), called Respite. And there's also a program for Daycare so you can work. The Respite is not income-based, but the Daycare IS income-based and you should qualify.



If she is really having seizures, then she should be on an anti-seizure medication.

don't limit yourself. get a caregiver -the pediatrician, medicaid, & your state's Bureau of Disability will advise you. get yourself enrolled in classes at the local community college -most have online courses. get counseling for your guilt issues and join a parenting group of special needs children. involve your daughter in the benefits that the school district has to offer.

thats whats wrong with the system, if your just to lazy to work they will give you the world on a platter. if you are really needy they turn their back on you ......... keep trying

you could apply for WIC,thats all i can think of.im sorry about your childs condition it will get better in the long run....

Too young for foodstamps? I don't understand ... if you're on your own you should be able to apply.



Have you checked out WIC? That helps a lot. Have you checked with your local food bank? Many counties around here have a help line that you call, and they'll help you find help.



Are you on medicaid? If so, have your doctor write out prescriptions for things like aspirin. Many OTC items are usually covered. You just take the prescription to the counter, and the pharmacy people will walk around the counter and pull the item off the shelf for you. And they'll hand it to you just like a regular prescription.



I think there's something else I can suggest, but it's late here and I'm tired. If I think of something else in the morning I'll let you know.



Just ... hang in there. And don't let anyone give you any crap about not having a job. You do have a job, taking care of your daughter, and it's an extremely important one.