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It's probably unlikely that you'll get pregnant this month. I'm not sure what the stats are on IUD, but for many women it takes some time. I think you should just stop having sex with your husband until you are back on contraceptives. It doesn't sound like he is being respectful about your wishes to finish school first, and since you can't take care of your family's birth control needs, he should...and since he won't then you need to stop for a while. His attitude about "if it's meant to happen it will happen" is a little creepy to me...he shouldn't want a baby to happen until you are BOTH ready for it.

Your husband needs to respect the fact that your not ready for another one yet and use a condom. That's not fair, you should both be in agreement when you are ready. If you already are pregnant, well then I guess you guys are going to have a 3rd, but I would tell him your not ready and he needs to wear a condom until you can get your IUD.

well usually it takes time after the IUD is out to get pregnant you usually have to wait until your next period to get pregnant but i think you will be seeing your doctor just after that again having unprotected sex leads to having baby's even with curtain birth control methods

um. you dont want kids. +he wont wear a condom. = no sex.



really until you find another birth control he will have to glove it or go without if you absolutely do not any more babies right now.

Um yeah- use a condom. easy as that really.

You dont want another child yet so you use some form of contraception until you do.

1 mth? id tell him, Look, you can either wear a condom or we can go without sex until i get the new birth control. I dont blame u for wanting to finish school b4 havin another baby, its tough goin to school with a baby. Tell him its your body and your education at stake.



Take a preg. test as soon as u can (like the ones 5 days b4 ur period) and make him wear a condom or at least get u a female condom bt they are less prevenitive (idont think thats even a word, but u kno what i mean and it works)

There is a morning after pill you can get at any pharmacy, you don't need a prescription. It is not an abortion pill, it just won't let a fertilized egg attach to the uterine wall. It is like taking a strong dose of a birth control pills. (Hormone) It works if you take it within 48 hr of unprotected sex.



Also, foam (Spermacide) is not as good a protection as a condom, but it is more fun and still fairly good protection. You can pick up some VCF (Vaginal Contraceptive Foam) at your local Walmart as well. I hate condoms. Also don't use the sponges (Spermicide) I had one get flipped around inside me and that was terrifying! I think foam is the best way to go!

If he is ready for a child and you are not, then it should be up to you. It is your body that will have to put up with the pains of pregnancy and it is your schooling that will have to be haulted because of it. Honestly, childbirth is so special, you do not want to ruin any of your joy with thoughts of regret. My mother had me when she was in college and never finished. I have always regretted being the reason she quit. She says she doesn't regret it, but she DOES say she wishes she finished. -- Just tell him nicely, no sex without condom. Also, you can use a semi-effective practice of not having sex anywhere near your ovulation date. It's not 100% effective, but it worked for me when my husband refused to use one. You could also try to get some "fun" condoms that might entice him to try something new. Just a thought.

Well if your pregnant you're pregnant and you can't change that unless you get an abortion. I do hope you know that abortion is totally wrong and I hope you're against it! But if you didn't want another baby than you should have gone on the pill if he didn't want to use a condom. Sorry, I don't want to be rude but it is logic....

If you are pregnant than I wish you guys the best! If you are not you should go on the pill if you want to continue having sex without condoms.



Wish ya the best of luck! Hope everything works out!