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I need to get revenge

Sorry if I'm going on a bit, but just need to get something off my chest... I've got a 17 month old and am 36 weeks pregnant with my second (hurray!). Their dad is usually great and does his best to after us all, but last night he went out (which is not uncommon). He only came home at 6am, when I got up with the 17 month old, it took me an hour to wake him to go to church and he has now gone back to sleep!!! I haven't been able to sleep well the last three nights due to horrendous B/H and diarreoah (sorry if tmi), so I'm exhausted. And I'm fed up because he's not ppulling his weight. The only way I could possibly feel better is to get revenge... any suggestions? ;-)
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Princess of the daisy fairies
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Guys can be real slobs. However, I don't think revenge is your only option. Make him feel really bad, but not in a whiny way. Be really nice to him cuzz that will make him guilty, especially if u tactfully sneak in a few friendly digs about sleep or some thing. eg "Sorry, i don't mean to be a bit grouchy. I was up all night with 17 month old"

Hope I helped

xxxxx

Do u no if ur baby is gonna be a boy or girl??

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xxxmexxx
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You don't need revenge -- you need to make him treat you like a princess. Tell him/yell at him to stop being such a jerk and going out all of the time but rather spend time with you, your kid, and the house. You have a 17-month old, you're pregnant, you haven't been feeling good... make him pull some weight. You have too much going on to take care of yet another person -- let him know that. Show him this. Sir, take care of your woman! smilies/smiley.gif

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Xai
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I would let the 17month old make as much noise as possible. My husband can sleep through music but not Barney LOL I would make a nice dinner and not for him and start letting all his laundry ans stuff pile up!! I wish I had better advice but I haven't been through that. But I would say noise lots of Noise LOL Good luck to you! Keep me posted on what ya did LOL

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jacki0o0
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Don't cook his dinner for a week

Play loud music to wake him up and keep him awake

Go out till 6am yourself (if you can manage it!)

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luving_m...
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Tell him you are going out tonight and stay at a friends house. Get a quiet full nights sleep and then stroll in the house are 7. Haha

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MISS ******
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I'd prob move out he seems like a loser anyhow.You can do far better than that.Good luck with this jerk.

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bunny.wo...
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There's only one thing to do - hold back on sex...lol



Deny him any kind of activities smilies/smiley.gif



Good luck and congrats smilies/smiley.gif

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shreya
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Staple hes bits< lol!

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mummy2be...
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i tnk u need 2 talk to him........n try and make him understand the situation......i hope he does!best f luck!

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Krispy
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That top answer is disgraceful



Revenge is never the way to go



You need to talk to him about it and tell him that it is not acceptable to come home at that hour you both need to sit down and talk about it and if that doesnt work tell him not to bother coming home at all if he plans on being out that late



Or what you usually do for him like washing or making him coffee DONT DO IT



Let him know that you are peed off and that you arent going out of your way for him if he isnt going to help you



Goodluck and i hope this helps

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Diane Kay
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Make him a breakfast or lunch that is sure to turn his stomach into knots! LOL, I know my hubby will vomit if I give him eggs after he pulls an all nighter with the boys...so the good wife I am I make him eggs after a night of fun. Funny thing is that he doesn't even realize it's the eggs, not even after 10 years. (I know it's a little evil).

Or I decide that I am going on a cleaning spree and need my music blasting with the vacuum cleaner running while I tease the dogs (cause they love to bark at the vacuum :-)

LOL< I hope he doesn't see this

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