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Kids call me gay but Im straight!

the popular kids at my school have been calling me gay for 2yrs now and they are taking it too far.they made up a rumor that I spanked a boy and told the guidance counselor.then they called my parents and told them.they also know that I have had a bunch of girlfriends. They have even gone out with some of my ex girlfriends. And now they tried to get a kid 3 years older than me to beat me up! What should I do? Because I don't think they will stop anytime soon. Please help!
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just me.
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well i'll tell you what, i dont like guys and go though this like every day at school, but what you can do is tell the office and it is considered to be sexual assualt so they could be arrested, or you could change schools, not that that would help much because in jr. high and high school people are giant asses and really it wont matter what you do they just do it to make themselves feel better because they are feeling small and worth nothing, so really they think that you are a threat to them and thats why they do it,or it might have something to do with the way you dress, walk or anything else, but you shouldnt let them see that it hurts you because all they want is a reaction and thats what you are giving them, so what that they think that you are gay, you know that you arent and your best friends now that you arent so why sould you care and as i say dont let you head drop down because there are people out there that would love to see you down....

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God Of Games
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Kids like those are dogs, dont listen to know Primary BS about telling the teachers and stuff, they probably will come back with more rumours. And hell, its wont help you. The most effective way to defeat this issue is to literally fight back, for example, get all the kids these so called popular kids have been bullying and (its kinda bad but try) secretly provoke them into hitting you. Once they start the fight, you go on and bang em'

GOOD LUCK!

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Lisa S
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I hope you can tell your own parents.And if you can have them go to the kids houses who are doing this and make those kids parents aware of what they are doing and that its disrupting your life.And with the help from your school confront these kids and make them aware that not only morally is this not cool but in the real world they could be charged with harassment

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Emma X
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Speak to your teacher,headmaster,counsellor,friends & parents.

This is a form of bullying.

I was bullied horrifically (physically though not mentally)

The best thing you can do it be a bigger person don't aknowledge their insults, remember sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me.



If you have anymore troubles email me.



Hope it gets better

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evoc instructor
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might be time to have your parents get a restraining order that states those kids are not allowed to have any contact with you. if they do the will be in violation of a court order. realize that kids are the worst and can do much damage to someone early on and not think anything about it. i wouldnt give them the time of day or acknowlege anything they say. what matters is what you think... if you know you are not gay then dont trip on it... but i hear ya, it sucks to have people say such things. hang in there for a bit longer and look back later and laugh when you actually make something of yourself and they become losers.

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Big-Daddy Long-Stroke
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have ur parents notify the police and threaten harassment charges if they don't stop / besides...they are just dealing with their own HOMOSEXUAL insecurities...you should do something tho, don't let this continue or they'll do it to you forever...stand up for yourself.

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Butercup© ily mark ♀ + ♂ = ♥
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How come they think you're gay?

I would ignore them and tell someone at school because this isn't fair. If the guy thats 3 years older than you beats you up then he's a loser for beating a kid up younger than him; it'll be him that comes out as bad one..

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John M
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if you look or act like you are , stop it ,take on the tuffest one you think you can whip ,and keep at it , after awhile they will start to leave you alone

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icebaby
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just avoid the popular kids if there in the hallways try going a diffrent way but if the abuse gets worst then how bout gettting a restraing order agaist them and tell the principle

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My little angel is coming 10/19
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Tell someone in the office about what they are doing , and how unsafe you feel walking through the halls ..

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r3trogur...
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tell the principal

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woohooxx
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I dont think theres much you can do

I don't want to be mean....but I know someone in your posision

and he is VERY camp (metro looking)

but just try to pretend it doesnt bother you

if it bothers you it'll give them more reason to say it and to actually THINK its true!

you'd look like your being defensive

if you tell your parents bout it they'll understand

they are not going to think you are gay

just because some idiots told them

they will believe you

it doesnt matter anyway just concentrate on your own friends and hobbies and **** them!

chances are the one that made up that rumour is the one thats gay

it happens all the time! if thats the case then you shouldnt really take it personally

plus you had a few gf's....that means the girls no your not gay

thats all that matters really at the end of the day isnt it smilies/smiley.gif

What doesnt kill you only makes you stronger!

soon youll be a better person than those dumasses and you can laf in their faces

good luck smilies/smiley.gif

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RCE
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Stop acting like a battie man then!!

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