no way! my dad has been traveling for my whole life, he is never around, im a virgin and proud of it, slutty girls are slutty b/c they are, they may lie and give excuses, but there isnt an excuse! sluts!
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Candi
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i lost my virginity at 13 to a person i don't even know. so slutty hurts because it wasn't my choice. i have a great dad and what i do with my body is my business and what other girls do with their bodie's is their choice so don't even bother to ask because they aren't gonna change just because you call them a slut ok.
girls are not the only ones who loose their virginity at a young age. guys do it too and they are really sexual and sexist, about how girls are sluts and when they have a lot of sex they are considered a whore and a slut, but when a guy has a lot of sex it is considered cool and the guys are always like "right on bro" it is sick how women are looked down on.
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Candice M
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i wouldn,t say that the father is involved in this,this is the mother job to take care for her girl child,most of the girls that are sexually active are for numerous reasons. we are all different people with different issues.some of them parents could be careless who work for hours and don,t have time for thier children,some thier mothers are prostitues,and some just follow thier friends because thier friends says its cool.but i will tell you this,children live what they learn.i strongly believe that mothers need to be more responsible when it comes to girl children,i know its not easy to be a mother especially when they reached teens but when it comes to a girl child the mothers need to take thier place.the father has nothing to do with it when it comes to girls the mother is the one responsible for thier daughters action,and the father should be responsible concerning thier sons.
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smiley chick
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Yeah, I would say in most cases that is true. If your a single mother always working, and your 13 year old is left alone until late at night, without supervision, she's more likely to get involved in drugs, or have sex earlier compared to a family with at least one parent at home who can monitor what she does. Fathers seem to have more control when it comes to disciplining their child than mothers do.
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toes1800
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They just got cought in the wrong situation in life...
We all make mistakes - I am not a teenager, but I am a adult with 2 kids - if I had a teenager comming to me and telling me that they will be parents - I will do whatever it takes to support my family. I don't blame the parents, I wouldnt blame the teenager - there is no one to blame....
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carolina
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nopee. its cause they think they are in love but they arent. i live in a small little town where everyone knows each other and there is only like 600 kids in the high school and like there is like 47 girls that are pregnant. it really sucks alot cause everyone talks about your town. and when a friend gets pregnant here their best friends want to get pregnant too. and at the jr high there was 5 girls pregnant. i think its really bad
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janelle
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actually yes,it does have part in it.
they want a male in their life.
one to just hold them and love them.
because they have no daddy to tell them not to,
or to protect them.
I have a dad yeah,but barely see him,
he used to be in and out of my life growing up.
I'm only thirteen.
I always remind myself that that is no excuse.
I have done a few stupid things,
just having fun,
but i wouldn't have sex.
i want to finish school.
be someone.
i don't have the time and energy at 13.
my parent's don't have the money.
+& there really isn't room.we
live 5 people in a 3 bedroom house.
i share a room with my neice(not really related,her mother abandoned her on us,+& it's not my sisters baby)she's four.
my sister has a room.
my brother has a room,even though he's a 21 year old drop out wiff' no job, and dropped out when we got him back in school the second time.
+& my moms room is where the dining room would be.
we do what we have to do.
i wouldn't want to make it harder.
yeah,i do give into guys easily.
but that's not going to make up for what's missing in my life.
+& i have to deal with it.
I hope i made a diference.
+& i hope my father knows what he's missing out on!
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Christin...
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it could be.or maybe its just cause theyre friends are doing it too, or popular kids at school. kids these days just like to do what everyone else does to fit in. one word..PEER PRESSURE!
i honestly think that half the teens HAVING sex actually decided on theyr own to do it.or even want to do it for that matter.
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LeAnna M
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no....its because the boy in the relationship is pressuring her so much that she does it and the reason why she doesnt do it is because she loves hm so much and does not want them to break up over something that she knows she is going to wind up doing latter on in life......>>>
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silverfa...
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I think its the fact (around here at least...) that the kids seem to talk back to there parents and there parents dont do anything about it. Of course, there are the girls who just wanna fit in n be populare and they think thats the way to do it.
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Spongelu...
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Yes because every single sexually active girl in the whole entire world is exactly the same
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Luv Yooh!
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Yeah most of them.
I think that other girls do it cuz boys presure them or their friends have sex.