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just be who you are.

Not having the ability to love is a fate worse than death itself. I don't think you are weak for loving someone or even wanting to fall in love with someone, and you might be surprised to know this but a lot of people don't care if you want to love. You shouldn't avoid getting in a relationship just because you are afraid of your feelings. All those men out there who are married are in love. Why can't you be as well?

Why does it matter what other people think? Are those people going to always be there? Are they the ones who will live life along side of you? Gonna take care of you when your old, just be there for you? Like a wife would?

Ya know that saying, and I think its really corny but its true.

Its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

That says it all. Dont worry about being macho, just be you.

That is the most pathetic thing i have ever heard. you have made yourself weak by caring about what other people think, be a man, dont care what other people think, love who you want to love, and if they think you are weak, then tell them to F*** OFF, because being in love is actually a lot of fun.

You are setting your self up for an unhappy life.

Love is not weak, or makes you less manly.

Love is sweet and wonderful.



Dont be a monkey, and work out how to be a strong man in love.



But give yourself time. And try not to be a d!$&#xHe;ad to girls while you a working it out.

If you feel weak in a relationship, It may be you think that you think love is stupid and you want to impress your freinds,

If you try to act tough you kinda loose it, just show your true feelings, and if it dont work go to a counciler



good luck!

loving someone isn't a bad thing, its completely normal, why do you feel weak?



don't avoid being in a relationship, it should make you feel better to know that someone cares about you.

Maybe talk to a counselor re: your feelings. Who cares what other people think. Love is not a sign of weakness, love is a sign of strength. It takes a lot in a person to love somebody, and to be there for someone.

What are you. insane? The whole point of being guy is to be a chick magnet. Go for it.

well coming here asking for advice is VERY manly...Dude forget what people think , when the right girl comes, all those other people will fade away, so they can think what ever the fk they want bro..

Be strong...don't get too serious and be willing to date lots of women. You are only young once and until you need to settle down, avoid long term relationships!

stop trying to look tough

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You need some psychological counseling.

you should date dont be afraid of falling in love its the best feeling ever and you may get your heart broken and you may break some hearts but sweetie life goes on

ok? you are a very strange person... and you care more about appearance.



Kid you got some issues...

i like the name jasper

why dont you name your Owstridge

jasper?

just a suggestionnnnn

=D

no! definitly try! have faith in yourself, you'll find the right girl.

theres is nothing weak about being in love. its very strong and amazing when a good man loves a woman. i know because i am very much in love with an amazing man. and he feels proud to have me by his side. when you truly are in love and others see that they should except if they dont then, they are just trying to bring you down. any woman that sees a man in love with another she looks at that woman like shes the luckiest woman alive, and they wished they had the same. dont ever mistake love for weakness love is the most powerfull force there is. let your heart be open and in life you'll be alot happier.. being in love true love, is amazing..

I don't know how old you are but there are many tough guys out there who are in loving relationships.

Love doesn't equal weak, in fact it can mean the opposite - especially if someone has been hurt before it can take a lot of guts to let someone in again.

I think the majority of men have the desires of having a loving committed relationship (though some at an earlier age than others, depending on previous experiences and maturity). If you push those you love , or could potentially love, away you'll become very lonely and will regret it in the future.

Here's a kiss for you tough guy! X

interesting, you should talk to someone about this, yes I know talking how weak...but to put things in perspective , do you want to be the person who doesn;t have any family to chill with during the holidays because your parents have died when your in your 40's or 50's and nobody that you are sure of that will be there for you in case you get sick? Are you sure you don't want any grandchildren when you are in your 60's? These are all things that will most likely happen if you don;t learn to get over this....But on the other hand some people aren't made for these types of things and they need to honor that. If you are a single guy instead of having your partner be the person you go on most of your vacations with or the person you eat dinner with...you will find friends who you will do these activities with....but you have to remember most likely these people will have families of there own and you will be on the back burner. is that something you want? the big question is what do you want for yourself and your future? which you states is wanting to be close to a woman and the next step is learning how to change that which would we talking with someone who knows how to help you.

As strong as you think you are being is seems to me you are very insecure, or else why would you care what your friends think? And its clear you know yourself pretty well, your not a classic "meat head" because you clearly analyze yourself and know whats up. But another question is what has happened (if anything) that makes you feel this way about love?

I tried to look at your other questions you have asked and this is set on private. people do not put things to private for no reason....whats up with you

I think you need to get over this whole ego thing.

Really what is life with out the people you love and the love people have for you.

**** manly.

It's human to love.

So I say show it.

My boyfriend had the same problem too.

After breaking up with him 2 times, he finally got the point that I'm not quite about the love I have for people and he shouldn't be either.

You shouldn't hide your feelings all because you are afraid people might think of you differently because I guarantee those people love someone too.

So I say go for it.

"Forget the risk, take the fall. If its what you want, its worth it all."

Fall in love and proclaim it to the world...I dare you. =]