Is it ever okay for a man to allow his frinds and family to verbal abuse his live in girlfriend of 6 years-E-Answer.Net

He doesn't seem to understand that he has allowed his friend and family to attack me with such ugly words and just stood there watched and said they had right to. I speak my mind and wont allow other to disrepect me, my family, home or relationship. Because I chose to defend my self and they responded back even more so because they seen how he coward up. My thing is they had nothing to say when it came to us and whatever we were going through. We just fought because he still trys to justify that they had the right to react back. My friend and family have never disrespected him in anyway and have stayed out of our business. I feel that he shoud have stood up and told them something. Weather I was in the wrong or not, he should have been a man about it. The way I see it is they were disrespecting him when they were disrespecting me. We should always be on the same team no matter what. Now that he allowed it, it continues and he doesn't say anything. I would like to hear some others input

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jademoon... Votes: +0	If he cannot respect <<-keyword you or your feelings. It doesnt matter if its 6 minutes, NObody should ever be verbally abused. Abuse is harsh in any forms which can lead to more serious problems. Speak with your mate and let him know this will never be tolerated report abuse vote down vote up


oOLisaOo Votes: +0	He is definitely being a COWARD. How dare he let his family disrespect you. I agree with you 100%. He should stand up like a man and tell his family that it is NOT ok for them to disrespect you.... and what makes it worse is you've been with him for 6 years! I don't know if that relationship will go anywhere, because I sure as hell wouldn't put up with that. report abuse vote down vote up


Mrs H Votes: +0	No. It's never OK. If they were in your house you should have thrown them out and if he had something to say about that you should throw him out with them. Sit him down and tell him how disrespected you feel and see what he says. report abuse vote down vote up


criminal at large Votes: +0	i don't think know one can say it any better than you just did no one can make the choice for you but i do know what you mean about medal some in laws it caused me a relationship i don't take **** off of no body report abuse vote down vote up


Forlorn Hope Votes: +0	move on with your life and dump him... report abuse vote down vote up


shelly f Votes: +0	maybe he thinks that since you stand up for your self and speak your own mind you dont need defending if you want him to defend you try being meek and mild like you need his help and I bet he will stand up to his family and friends but since you take care of it yourself why should he and cause friction with them and him. report abuse vote down vote up


Denise Votes: +0	Well first off it’s NEVER ok from anyone to verbally abuse you. And as your partner he is disrespecting you also for allowing them no matter who they are to talk to you that way. You sound like a strong person, but keep in mind in my opinion you’re disrespecting yourself by taking the abuse. Talk to your boyfriend and make it very clear that respect works both ways and its high time he steps up next to you and stands strong by your side and not allow this abuse any longer. Best of luck. report abuse vote down vote up

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