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Who do you think is right

You see, I`m young so I still cannot entirely understand people`s behavior. On the other hand, some of my friends find it easy to evaluate people before even getting to know them.
I think I did a stupid thing the other day. I got mad at my professor in the morning for asking me to explain something in front of the class and he knows how much I hate speaking in front of people.
I have noticed he hates to see me talking to boys and men during breaks. I was so mad that i decided to spend hours chatting to this guy, so that prof could see us. The prof got really mad. He told me afterwards that I was wasting my time and that I could have studied during the break. I know what he said was true. I should have studied.When he calmed down he told me I could tell him all my problems or anything that bothers me. This was nice from him. I was such a goose.
The problem is that some of my colleagues and the guy I was talking to think the prof is after me. I don`t think this is true. Am i right?
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Jenny J
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why do people always jump to the most negative of conclusions, maybe he See's in you characteristics that remind him of himself and knows your capable of great things if you commit to them. Not all people show interest purely out of self indulgence

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*Honest Freaken Blunt Opinioner*
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the possibilities that he might be mad and upset that youre talking to guys is:

1) he really cares for you and just dont want to see you get hurt becuase hes a grown mature adult and has expeirence

2) hes extremely jealous and IS trying to go after you

3) he just likes to tease you



but i think number 2 is a big possibility.

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whisper
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yes his after you,i would stick to just ignoring him except in ure studies,,he can make it hard on you if u keep talking to the guys when he can see you,,bu tif it gets to bad him tryin gto come on to you i would report him n mayb even try to change classes,,when he told u u could tell him anything,,,i think i would have said i have a dad for that,,just b carefull around him,,,peace

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Nina
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Oh yeah I definitely think there is something there, on his end anyway. Main thing is don't let him intimidate you though. If it gets to where it is truly creeping you out or you don't feel safe, go to the dean or dept head or whoever. After awhile he could become obsessed with you and believe it or not it can be the scariest emotion ever!!!

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Bilal
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everyone teacher is not after the hottest thing in the class. Some actually have a strong desire to see their students become successful and it can be frustrating to an instructor to see someone not studying as they should. I would take the hint and study and talk to the boys later on your free time.

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shortayr...
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i think your prof. is trying to get you to concentrate so you can pass his class. umm..i'd take the hint. most teachers wouldn't tell you THAT much and just let you fail. there's plenty of time for guys after school.

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imintowa...
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Faro, it sounds like the prof is after a little schoolgirl snatch. Or maybe just a bj. Tell another teacher about this, if it keeps happening.

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amazonkr...
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pay attention to your school work men will only get you into trouble.

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chel
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he might be!

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Doug J
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I don't know. Are you really that attractive that a prof would want you?

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Corporate Mom
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ok first of all, there's nothing wrong with you talking to boys your age, it is quite natural, and your teacher is wrong to get mad about this. It's really none of your teacher's business whom you decide to talk to or what you decide to do in your spare time. It does sound to me, as an adult, that this teacher is taking too much interest in you, I would be very careful around him. Also, there's nothing wrong with being embarrassed about talking in front of other people, this is also quite natural, and even adults get nervous when they have to speak in front of a crowd. In this way, your teacher is being helpful, because the more he makes you do it, the more comfortable you will get, and unfortunately speaking in front of people is a necessary part of grown up life, so he is trying to prepare you for that. But, as I said before, it's none of his business which boy you talk to or whatever, it sounds to me like your teacher is jealous when he sees you talking to boys, and that is not a good thing honey, so just be very careful around him. If he does anything to make you feel uncomfortable please talk to your parents or another adult you trust about it.

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Hatice E
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How old are you and how old is your proffesor ?

if your ages are relativley close, then i guess he could be.

i think he does like you either in a going out type of way or just he seems to just like u as in look out for u type of thing...

he sounds like a nice guy though u should appreciate that he looks out for u in a sort of way, as in he gets angry that u talk 2 other boys/men.

i suppose u can ask him why he gets angry wen u talk 2 other boys/men and if he says because u cud of been studying then just say why dont u get angry when so or so talks to boyss/menn

etc somethign along those lines.

Good luck

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