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Is masterbation a bad thing

When you do it more than 3 times a week? Most of the time when Im done doing it I feel really bad and stupid, but while im doing it I cant stop and I dont want to.

I want to know that if its so natural, why do I feel bad and is this a matter of self control, b/c Ive tried to stop before? I think Im a nympho.
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im the exact same way. love it, but when im done i feel so bad like ive done something wrong. and then i promise i wont do it again..but you know..

i think the fact that you keep going back to it is just showing that its a natural process, its part of being a woman. eventually im sure we will get over the feeling..and it's becoming less and less taboo in society too which helps. oh and im a girl.

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XyContro...
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Regular masturbation is not only healthy for the mind (endorphins are released into the mind lifting your immune system and mood, usually) but also good for the body! If you are experience negative feelings after achieving orgasm, perhaps it is linked to an event in your life (knowing someone who has been or having been raped, or inappropriately touched etc) and you should seek professional counseling from planned parenthood or a private doctor.



Also, masturbating several times a week is healthy for some people's sexual appetite as well. It really depends on your sex drive. Being a nympho is equivalent to being a sex maniac. If you were having sex all the time, several times a day AND masturbating too I would say you were a nympho.



It sounds to me like you have a normal sexual appetite, but abnormal feelings that your subconscious associates with sex. Just go see someone about it, it may help your problems.

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Rev JackM
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There is nothing wrong with what you are doing. It's perfectly ok to do it every day if you wish. When you say that you feel bad, is because you think that masturbating is a bad thing, and this then adheres to the thought that when you do it, you feel guilty.



Try playing some relaxing music before hand, and say to yourself that it is not a bad thing to do as God made me the way I am.



After a few times of doing this, you will start to become acceptable to the new feelings you have, and you will not feel guilty any more.



As for the nympho bit, I don't think so, but i bed many men would hope you would be, especially if you were to meet them. lol.



Enjoy life, it's meant to be enjoyed.



Blessing

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sashtou
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It's free, it's legal, it's not unhealthy, it's not taxable, it's not fattening and its definitely Green, nor can you become pregnant as a result or obtain any transmittable diseases either.



On the other side of the coin, it is possible to become addicted ~ and forsake other close human relationships, and also, it can be very, very ~ very lonely.



If you want to feel BAD about this act, then so be it. On the other hand, if you want to ....like enjoy your body and what it can do for you, if you would like to experience the freedom, the life and the pleasures of self love, the solitary vice, of masturbation, of self pleasure and to explore the avenues of your own fantasies..............



Then, it's free, it's legal, it's not unhealthy, it's not taxable, it's not fattening and its definitely Green, nor can you become pregnant as a result.



Have fun.

Sash.

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chinamig...
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You feel bad because you have heard and been taught that this is bad thing to do. 3 times a week does not make someone a nympho. 3 times a day is not even that out of the ordinary. As long as it is not interfering with your other life activities and you do not choose masterbation over having normal relationships with others, then you are no different then 95% of the people in the world.

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rkrell
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No, it is not a bad thing. It is very natural and normal. The problem is that some religions have tried to make such things taboo. This has led to people feeling uncertain and even guilty about such a normal thing. The truth is that what your doing is normal and healthy for you. Doing it doesn't make you a nympho even if you do it every day. Learn to accept yourself and lose the guilt.

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*What A Crazy Life*
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Its a really stress relieveing thing. Its natural to do it, but I know what your going through and how your feeling. Its a hard subject to talk about because you got people who either say, "Yea do it as much as possible (people who usually never have any g/f b/f...) or you got people saying its disguesting...



I felt bad sometimes, because it feels wrong doing it, like its a sin, but do what you feel right. Email me sometime (go to my profile and im or email me...smilies/smiley.gif maybe you won't ahve to any longer. smilies/wink.gif

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cheerjen...
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It is totally natural to do it more than that so you are fine! As long as you are not masturbating so much that other things don't get done (job, homework, etc.) Then you can do it as much as you like. Self love is safe love!!

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bdloving
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The good feelings come from your body, and thats natural.

The bad feelings come from the society you have been raised in. If you are young and just learning, dont worry about it. It is natural.

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Risteard
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Masturbation isn't wrong and anybody who tells you it is, is just being ridiculous. Everybody has different sex drives, you might have one that's higher than others, it's no big deal.

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DmnEyes
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no masturbating is not a bad thing



nympho is sex addict not a masturbation addict.

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((♫))TiP...
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no youre not a nympho.. its perfectly normal.. sometimes your body asks for it.. so do it as much as you need it.. nothing will happen and the good thing about it is theres no need to worry bout no STDs.. lol

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Forlorn Hope
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do it as often as you want... all perfectly natural and harmless.. and you know what your body does when excited.. smilies/cheesy.gif

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No its not, its one of the best things for us. Trust me you will outgrow feeling guilty about it, lol.

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Rick
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no, it is natural

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